It’s been a hectic day, the reason I ‘escape’ to blog is just to put my mind off the stress. It’s been a couple of weeks not doing the English Friday challenges because of the busy things. Well, here’s my entry for this week.
What is complicated relationship? Usually you can always define your relationship with someone.
“He’s my friend.” Or, “We’re going out.” Or, “I don’t like her. She’s not my friend.”
But it is complicated when you’re not sure what to answer your relationship with someone. So, it is a between-relationship. Like, you think of someone as a friend, but you ‘occasionally’ go out together and hold hands (‘friends’). Or, You always have think of someone as your BFF in your office/school, but you guys actually hated each other (frenemies). But, usually, complicated relationships linked to between friends or lover.
It is usually becomes complicated when one is in ‘denial’ and the other hoping too much to be someone special. And, perhaps one is too available and the other used that opportunity to fill the empty void he/she longing from someone else. Many cases, the available ones are single people and the other is in a relationship with someone else.
I think it’s okay when it’s just a pre-serious relationship phase, so it’s actually going somewhere. But it’s not okay when it is too long, because it’s a ticking time bomb. When it comes to feelings, it always sensitive and vulnerable. You don’t want to be in too deep to something that lead to nowhere. There’s no bargain when it comes to your feelings, because life’s already complicated to be in a complicated relationship.
There you go. What about you? What is complicated relationship to you?